I don’t know about you but life is such a struggle at times. Relationships are work no matter what. My hope is that if you’re single at the moment just hold tight and things will of course change. We all want to be loved and cared for regardless. Love is so important. Do you think too much or over analyze everything?

We need to follow our heart and the answers will be provided. This may not happen right away but we need to stop making decisions based on what our thoughts are. When you think too much your thoughts get all out of control. This is a critical time when we should just sit with a feeling and not act. Be still and listen to what your heart tells you.

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Question:
I’ve been dating for about five years and I keep meeting the same men—nice guys but not at all my type. I’ve been using the Internet most recently and I usually respond if a guy writes me who sounds okay but not “just right,” thinking I may never find a guy who matches my criteria. So what am I doing wrong?
Listen to my answer on coachmarcie.com

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Is it all about the Law of Attraction or are we searching for that feeling that makes you loved and wanted. People think that if you are a Dating/ Relationship Coach or a Therapist that you can’t make the same mistakes when it comes to love as your clients.

I personally have not always made the right choices when it comes to love. But, I always stay in the moment and in reality which makes me responsible for my actions. My intuition is very strong and I go with my gut. I can feel the good and bad energy from people. That is one reason I became a coach and use my strength to help other know the inner working of their heart and soul. Once we have this figured out we can move on to putting a plan into action that works for you. If you take a leap of faith and know in your heart he/she is the one do your best to slow it down so you both can breathe and process what is really going on.

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Love should be easy right? Shouldn’t it just flow like the bumpy road of life? There is no way to know if today will be the day your heart gets broken.
Love comes and goes just like each day. This is why we need to live in the present and let go of exceptions. In my book Dating Ain’t For Sissies, Baby I talk about what single people need to do to start making changes to their approach when it comes to dating. Fear or feeling desperate clouds the reality of life. Each and everyone you come into contact with are in your life for a reason. It doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad. Take the time to learn the lesson of this person and why they play a role. There are so many people out there that just want to blame someone else instead of themselves for their baggage. This is just one example to think about. Stay positive and strong and nothing or no one can get in your way to inner peace and happiness.

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Let’s have some fun and share our funniest date story. (NO REAL NAMES WILL BE USED) Log onto www.coachmarcie.com and on the home page at the bottom there is a spot to ask me a question. Fill out your contact information which will be kept private and send me your story. Keep it as brief as posible. I will post them on my Facebook wall and we can share. Pass this along to other friends so they can become a Fan and read the entries.

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Hi, I’m Coach Marcie and I want you to have dating experiences that really knock your socks off—starting today!  With my new book, Dating Ain’t For Sissies, Baby™, Your Guide to Solving Your Dating Dilemmas, you’ll discover why your dating life may be far less than you want it to be and, better yet—how to improve it!  I’ll show you why you may be experiencing so much dating frustration and help you get rid of old patterns and attitudes, learn how to communicate more effectively, and determine the kind of person you hope to find as a life partner.

CAN DATING ACTUALLY BE FUN AND REWARDING?

Yes! And it starts with you believe it or not.  Most people believe if they just play the numbers game and date enough people, they’ll eventually find the person of their dreams.  Well, that can work, but the real key to finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with involves changing your approach and attitude about dating in general.  

Einstein was right: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”   And it really is insane to keep making the same mistakes and expecting just the right person to magically appear in your life.  With Dating Ain’t for Sissies, Baby, I’ll help you change old ways of thinking so you can find a healthy and happy relationship.

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Believe it or not there are a lot of single people that are happy. If you can stay in the present and not look back or too far forward you can find inner peace. It is only when you look back or wish your life was different in the moment that kicks your butt each and every time.

I don’t live in the past anymore because I can’t change a thing and actually I wouldn’t want to. I’m here now in this moment and can visualize all I want in my life. I don’t say things like “I want or I need”. Instead I imagine what I desire as if it already exist.

So, be happy if you’re single at the moment and embrace the here and now. Live your life and all good things will come in due time.

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The ex factor is plan and simple to me since I have been on both sides. It is very rare that two people who were in love and intimate to be just friends when they split up. I’m not saying it can’t work but it’s hard. Some feeling just never go away and it can get in the way of a new relationship. If both parties are involved with other people it could work. It takes a secure person and a lot of trust to be OK with the ex in the picture.

Does the attraction and chemistry just go away? We are all human and have to be honest about the law of attraction with the ex. I can be honest and say that it took years for me to stop wanting to get back together with a long lost boyfriend. For both of us it was just to know we could have each other again. Old wounds exposed and resurfacing is not all that much fun.

So, just ask yourself the basic question of why is this so important to cling onto the ex. And aren’t you just fooling yourself….

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What do you think? There are many people out there that enjoy being single. And, not for reasons that you would think. It isn’t that they have so much baggage that they could sink a ship. Or they just can’t commit.

Times have changed and so have the views of not wanting to run to the alter or settle down. I have a couple friends that say their life is fulfilled. I don’t think you are truly alone if you have a good circle of friends and family. If you are not planning on having children is one reason people stay single.

These days a lot of men and women 35 and older find a way to get their needs met. Some just want a friend with benefits. There is so much judgement on this subject that really makes me laugh. It’s better than being with someone that you have no interest in a future with but enjoy the time you spend together. It is a mutual choice and it works for some.

Women make just as much as men now and can take care of themselves. I say good for you! And for men who don’t want a family and are happy being single the same goes for you. When I think of being old I have to say I picture myself hanging out with my girlfriends. My friends and I joke about it but it could happen if we out live our men.

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If you want to date you will need to put time and energy into it. If you’re not willing to put any effort into finding TRUE love it will never happen. Time and time again people want to work with a dating coach but think there is magic involved. I don’t have a pill to prescribe or a trick to tell you. What I do provide is straight forward, honest and fun approach to breaking old patterns. If the area of relationships and love are not getting you to your end result there is a reason.

You must weed out all the negative thoughts and inner talk that prevents you from being who you really are. No one will love you if you don’t love yourself first. This is work people and I challenge you to step up to the plate and take a swing. Practice makes perfect but sometimes you need a little help. Don’t you want to be the best that you can? I do and I work on this each and everyday. There is something to learn from each interaction and experience.

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