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No matter what you think there is so much to be thankful for. I know this time of year can be hard for some people and you must try and stay as positive as possible.
Be grateful for the following:
Each Day
Each experience whether good or bad
Your present health
Your family
Your friends
Your job
Each time you laugh or cry
Making the most out of life
Accepting love in your life
Staying positive
Not taking on others negative energy
Believe it or not there are a lot of single people that are happy. If you can stay in the present and not look back or too far forward you can find inner peace. It is only when you look back or wish your life was different in the moment that kicks your butt each and every time.
I don’t live in the past anymore because I can’t change a thing and actually I wouldn’t want to. I’m here now in this moment and can visualize all I want in my life. I don’t say things like “I want or I need”. Instead I imagine what I desire as if it already exist.
So, be happy if you’re single at the moment and embrace the here and now. Live your life and all good things will come in due time.
The ex factor is plan and simple to me since I have been on both sides. It is very rare that two people who were in love and intimate to be just friends when they split up. I’m not saying it can’t work but it’s hard. Some feeling just never go away and it can get in the way of a new relationship. If both parties are involved with other people it could work. It takes a secure person and a lot of trust to be OK with the ex in the picture.
Does the attraction and chemistry just go away? We are all human and have to be honest about the law of attraction with the ex. I can be honest and say that it took years for me to stop wanting to get back together with a long lost boyfriend. For both of us it was just to know we could have each other again. Old wounds exposed and resurfacing is not all that much fun.
So, just ask yourself the basic question of why is this so important to cling onto the ex. And aren’t you just fooling yourself….
