What do you think? There are many people out there that enjoy being single. And, not for reasons that you would think. It isn’t that they have so much baggage that they could sink a ship. Or they just can’t commit.

Times have changed and so have the views of not wanting to run to the alter or settle down. I have a couple friends that say their life is fulfilled. I don’t think you are truly alone if you have a good circle of friends and family. If you are not planning on having children is one reason people stay single.

These days a lot of men and women 35 and older find a way to get their needs met. Some just want a friend with benefits. There is so much judgement on this subject that really makes me laugh. It’s better than being with someone that you have no interest in a future with but enjoy the time you spend together. It is a mutual choice and it works for some.

Women make just as much as men now and can take care of themselves. I say good for you! And for men who don’t want a family and are happy being single the same goes for you. When I think of being old I have to say I picture myself hanging out with my girlfriends. My friends and I joke about it but it could happen if we out live our men.