Why women don’t respond to men who wink them online
No wonder so many single people are totally frustrated with online dating. People wink each other but never write. Or then keep checking out your profile and still don’t write you. I recall when I was on match.com I wouldn’t even bother with anyone that winked me instead of writing. Not the man I want to be introduced too.
Is it because they are afraid of rejections and if so get over it. Why pay money to join if the only thing you do is look? So many women complain about the men on match.com. I say be a man and email the women. I understand if you happen to shy and have a hard time putting yourself out there. But, there comes a time when you must stop living in fear.
Most people are online for the same reason and that is to meet their ideal partner. But, there are people that are just looking to hook up for the night or are married. If you don’t take risks you will never get to the end result.
I really don’t understand why women don’t respond to emails. If you haven’t subscribed I understand. But I don’t understand why they just don’t say anything. It is very impolite. One women even says on her description, “if I don’t respond to your emails, that is just the way it is”.
It is like someone saying hello to you in the hallway and you not responding. I don’t frequent singles bars, but it would be like a guy getting up the nerve to approach a woman and trying to talk to her and she just turning away and not recognizing the man is there.
Who taught these women manners?
I can tell you from a man’s point of view it’s a “cheapskate” thing!
Why write if we can’t be assured of a response?
And I can tell that the majority cause is from guys who HAVEN’T paid the fees
who are HOPING you women will give them an Outside email address
so they don’t have to spend too much money.
They wink at everyone woman that looks good and think that at least
ONE will take the bait. IMHO they are just CHEAP bastards
and I say to you JUST DON’T REPLY !!!!
Make em Pay - If they REALLY WANT YOU they’ll do whatever it takes
to talk to you…otehrwise it’s just trolling for whatever sex-pot
comes along…
I’m going to have to agree with the singles being cheap and not signing up for the service. When I see clues of a private email address it just says “I’M A JERK”. You can never be assured of an response so people don’t take it personally. It just means the person isn’t for real at all and not worth the bother.
This comment goes both way. I always make an effort to create an email with unique similarities that we share. Many times I think we’d find each other a great match, or at least an enjoyable conversation. But i get too many viewed me’s with no response. A friend once told me, “You’re attractive, talented and intelligent. You know how scary that is for a woman?”…What? Isn’t that what every woman says they want in their profile?