There is no rule written in stone when it comes to how many dates should you have before sleeping with someone. I hear some men say there is a 3 to 5 date rule. It is all a personal preference but make sure you can handle not getting a call or date from the person you slept with too soon. Women need to become warriors that are strong and confident. A warrior knows when to go into battle and when to sit back and wait for the best outcome.

I have been there myself years ago and learned the same lessons as you. When I was single and online I would even write in my profile that if your looking for a hook up PLEASE just pass on by. I got so tired of the game. The men were so into me until around the 3rd date when I wouldn’t have sex and vanished into the night never to be heard from again. I was very clear that I was looking for my last love and nothing less.

Your self esteem and confidence can be affected by sleeping with someone and then never hearing from them again. So think before your leap and if someone is really interested in you they WILL wait.