Do you find browsing profiles online fun or totally depressing? I say it’s both. Last night my single girlfriend and I were checking out men for her on Match. I remember all to well what it felt like looking at men who would be interested in me. This is called a reverse search. Now, if your a women over 40 this can be a challenge. Some of the men are in their late 50’s and early 60’s. If you’re young looking or young at heart this can give you a pit in your belly. It’s all personal preference! Some women want to date an older man who’s kids are all grown up and others want a younger men. There are a lot of younger men out there interested in older women. Women without a doubt feel better about themselves as they age. Some men age very well and in my opinion they get better looking.

There is a fun side to looking because it doesn’t hurt. You just can’t sit around checking out someone’s profile yelling “Pick me”. Take a chance and write some people even if your so so interested. Be BOLD and BRAVE and just do it. I know too many people who sign up and are afraid to write members. Don’t feel rejected if they don’t write back. Remember that don’t have a clue who you or what you’re about really. We are all attracted to different types.