You need to really ask yourself if you can handle the whole friends with benefits thing. This type of relationship or arrangement is not meant for everyone. You can’t have any emotional attachment or be in love with this person. Someone will get hurt if your feelings are not in check and it will most likely be YOU.

It is just about sex plain and simple. There is no need to wine and dine either. For women, it used to be a sin to have sex with someone who isn’t your boyfriend. But, times have changed and we can do what we want with no guilt or judgement on ourselves. There is nothing wrong with women wanting to get their needs met when your not in a commited relationship. Just be smart about it and make sure you use your head instead of your heart.

The bottom line is friends with benefits is not about love. Don’t be fooled into thinking “I can get him or her to love me”. Just have fun and remember that it is what it is.