You know what? Life just isn’t fair at times. But, if you blame everyone else for your unhappiness that is not fair. What you need to do is start reflecting on your choices and decisions that you have made. It may not be pretty but most unhappy people blame everyone else for there problems.

I have a problem but who should I blame? I got cancer and I’m mad as hell. Who’s fault is that? Is it my mother’s fault because she had cancer or my sister’s or my dad who died of cancer? The answer is NO! But, these were the cards I was dealt and instead of being mad and impossible to be around I just took it one step at a time. Life happens and so you just need to deal with it. Sure, I was sad and thought for a couple days why me but I got over it fast. Now, I’m having chemo just as an added benefit. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

I have grown so much in the past year and more empowered then ever. Nothing will bring me down that I can’t deal with. We all have the strenght to move beyond our challenges. Be kind to yourself and more important be kind to others. What you put out is what you will get back. Live, Love and Grow. Be happy in the moment! And if your not happy take steps to be happy. Life is too short.

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Why is flirting so difficult for some many women?  We all need to find our inner sexy self.  Check out www.feelingflirty.com for get advice and fun reading.  How we feel about ourselves can limit our ablility to feel sexy. There are several things you can do to gain self confidence and find your inner strenght.

There is a lot of focus on feeling sexy online or classes you can take.  How about taking a exotic or pole dancing class?  I say go for it! In fact www.feelingflirty.com has some great tips for you to start to putting into action.  I have always felt sexy but I still hold back my inner flirt a bit.  So now I find myself reading the feeling flirly blog too!  This is a great site for men also.

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