My life has always been a bumpy road with highs and lows.  It took a long time for me to stop playing the victim role and take control of my thoughts and feelings about whatever is in front of me.  Bad things do happen to good people but it is how we deal with the bumps that mold us.  I have always said what does not kill me will make me stronger. 

So next time your approach a bump in the road of life don’t give up on yourself and the people that love you. There is always something to learn from each experience both good and bad. We all have personal power and this is the time to call upon yours. Try and sit with your feelings and notice that the harder you look inward your strength will shine through. Write, talk to a friend but above all be honest with yourself. 

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In relationships our love is tested over and over.  At times each person will go through setbacks in life. You know the expression what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger?  Well, this is so true and I’m a perfect example of this with my own life struggles. 

Each of us need to take responsiblity of our own path in life. What we hope is that our partner can support us.  But, there can be limitations as to how your partner will react and deal with your own personal struggles. An example is my recent news of having breast cancer. Although, my cancer was caught early and I do need surgery to remove a small lump with possible radiation treatments I’m still scared as hell. My boyfriend has been very supportive and we are taking one step at a time. But, since my mom and sister are both breast cancer survivors I am the real deal.  So I don’t expect my boyfriend to totally understand what I’m going through. But, his love and support is such a comfort. The power of his love for me is helping me keep it together.  So remember we all deal with things in our own way and we have are own coping skills. Allow your partner to support you in his or her own way and never be afraid to ask for what you need.

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