Depression during the holidays Part 2

I understand that being single can be very frustrating at times. It took me until  I was 45 years old to find my one true love. There is alot of wasted energy focusing on what we don’t have and past relationships and patterns.  If your not in a relationship and are depressed during the holidays it is up to you to change your additude. We can not expect family and friends to completely get it. Maybe you are not being as proactive in your dating approach and need to find something that works for you. My advice at times my seem generic but I have a broad range for readers.  If you want more detail regarding your situation feel free to write me and I would be more than happy to assist.

Depression during the holidays

It is very common for single people to be depressed during the holiday season. It is all about your loved ones and family. Always remember even when your not dating there are plenty of people in your life that love you and care for you.

What is must important is treat yourself with kindness during the holidays. Focus on what you have and not what is missing. We all have things to be grateful for so stay positive. Make a wish list for 2007. Write down all you hope, desires and wishes for the new year. Ask for what you want in a positive way to your higher power and watch what can happen. It will keep you on the positive path.

Dating Resolutions for 2007

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The truth is we need to look within when a relationship ends to assess of role in the breakup. But, it is not always your fault. Remember that it takes 2 to make any relationship work. Try to look beyond all the self doubt and review what lessons you learned. Your getting one step closer to finding true love!

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Does your partner push your buttons?

There are times when one is tested within their relationships. It is very hard not to react when your partner’s behavior or words are hurtful. It can really push one’s buttons and your need to sort of what is their stuff and what is yours. I for one have learned not to react right away. I have the ability to look deeper and really see what is going on. We are all tested everyday in one way or another. If you react to everything you could make the situation worse. Step back and above all don’t take on your partners stuff. You partner could be testing you and your relationship which we all do.