Open your heart to love

If your heart is always open to give and receive love amazing things can start to happen. So many of us close our heart off to love due to old hurts. You could have not felt loved as a child therefore unable to receive love. Our mind and hearts center can hold onto old pain and put a shield up and we may not even be aware.

It is the power of positive thoughts that can change your life. All negative thoughts can be removed by not giving them power. Stay open and in the positive and amazing things will start to happen. For more information contact me!

Lessons in Relationships

Each relationship teaches us something about ourselves. I’m referring to all relationships you have or have had in the past. My belief is that we have many lives but have no memory of them. Each life teaches us lessons. So each person that strolls into my life I believe is here to teach me something about myself. Even the relationships where there is a lot of conflict. We see our strengths and weakness. So take some time to reflect on your role in your relationships and see the positive that can come from them.

Rushing into Love

Do you ever wonder why people always want to jump into a relationship without taking it slowly? For some all it takes is one date and they are off and running in their head. I believe it must be something you’re running away from on some emotion level.

It should never be that the next man or woman that comes along is your ticket to happiness. You know nothing about them and it takes times to really get to know someone. I know it is hard to stay in reality and not get caught up in a new romance. I have done this myself but learned that it was my own insecurities and fears that led me to wanting to jump right in.

If a relationship is meant to be time will tell. A new relationship stirs up so much in each of us. Each of us is dealing with some old hurts and feelings. This can only be worked out by pushing through the scary stuff. So the next time you meet someone new have patience and listen to your mind and heart. Mr. or Miss Wrong will never turn into Mr. or Miss Right no matter how hard you try.

Financial Freedom

This past weekend I attend a workshop called the Millionaire Mind in NJ. The founder is T. Harv Eker who is a best selling author. If you want to be Financially Free it is well worth the time and effort. But, here is what you really need to know. Along with ways to manage your money it is all about selling other trainings classes. So you have to be able to tune out the selling part and focus on the tools that T. Harv Eker gives you to manage your money and invest for your future. If you want
financial freedom
he is the man to learn a lot from.

First Date Pressure

You can’t rush love especially when it comes to meeting someone from one of the internet dating sites. Trust me I understand how you can get your hopes up planning to meet someone. It is not healthy to put all your energy and hopes in a one hour date.

You really need to think of this as an adventure and take the chance on the chemistry just not being there. If you’re like me you know within 5 minutes if there is any chemistry or not. Then there are others who need a couple dates to know if this is Mr. or Miss Right.

There are so many lonely people who are looking for their soul mate. When you single focus on yourself and find what makes you happy. We can’t wait around for love to come a knocking at our door. Be happy and love will find you when you least expect it.

The bottom line is hopes and dreams are very important but we have to be open it. If you planning a date with someone new just go and see what you see or feel. Remember, as I keep saying a first date is a “meet and greet”.

Empowering Young Women

I rather enjoy working with young women to feel confident and secure in who they are. We can all be mentors to the younger generations and give back. You remember how tough it was as a young women facing adulthood.

For me it is one of the best feelings in the world to help guide someone who appears lost and all alone with their thoughts and feelings. Most of the time we just need someone to talk to and bounce ideas off of. Sometimes you need someone other than a parent to provide feedback or just listen.

So ladies give back to the younger generations and feel the reward.