There is no easy answer here. At times it can feel like a part time job but in fact it does take up a lot of your time. The question I would ask is it worth it? The answer is yes but you need to not take it so personally. What I mean is there any rejection you may feel is not really about you. These people don’t know you but are judging you by your picture and profile. Don’t ever assume you know why someone didn’t write you back.

Remember that there are people that just browse and write but have no intention of following through. They may just be testing the waters or think it’s a game. When your looking for a new relationship on the internet you just need to weed through the emails and and profiles and see if there is common ground. Some people are just looking for a hook up for the night. This isn’t let’s make a deal unless that is what your looking for. Match.com comes has become one big pick up bar online. This is mostly because of all the heavy advertising. I personally have experienced men who just want sex and even phone sex. Boy, to me this is the biggest waste of time. And what about the people who say their the best kisser around? Are we supposed to meet them and even think they are looking for a relationship? The answer is NO!

Now for everyone who is trying to find their soul mate please keep the faith. Just stay focus on what you want and it will come to you in time. There are men and women looking for the real thing and you will find it. Just be smart about the people you communicate with.