All you need to do is find the site that works best for you. There are so many sites out there from Match.com to Eharmony. It depends on what your looking for. I suggest trying one site at a time instead of putting your profile on several sites. There is nothing more depressing that browsing sites and seeing the same people on serveral sites.

If you join one and your not happy with the responses than move on to another. You are just wasting your money or it’s wishful thinking that your dream mate is just going to appear out of nowhere. Do your research before joining. Several sites allow you to browse profiles without joining or with little effort.

Also, it is my opinion that joining a new site for 6 months without a test drive is a waste of money and energy. Try it out first and then make a decision.