In this day and age so many singles are meeting people online. It is almost like a blind date in a way. Although, you may know a lot more about the person you still have no clue what they will like in person.

Repeat after me…A first date is a ‘MEET AND GREET”. Women especially need to understand this. Do NOT plan a whole day or evening with someone the first time. I know what your thinking but the reality is you don’t.

It truly is a bad situation to have to spend a two hour dinner with someone that your not attracted to. That is why you should meet for a drink or coffee and if you hit it off go from there or plan a real first date.

I remember getting fixed up with a guy through a friend of a friend. We talked on the phone and everything was going well so he wanted to take me out for a nice dinner and I said yes. When I first met him all I saw was the worst comb over I have ever seen and the guy was only 32. All I wanted to do was go back into my apartment and cry.

But, since I’m not a rude person I went on the date as planned. It was so painful and we had nothing in common to even talk about. So I just asked question after question to avoid silence. What nerve the guy even ordered dessert to make the night last a little longer. He knew that I was not interested at all.

So this why I say just meet for a drink and see if you want a real date.