Do you take things to personally?

There are just some days when your just not in the best mood. Then you have an interaction with a friend or loved one and they say something that just sets you off. Most times you just want to say something back when it would be best to just let it go.

We all can’t be on the same page at the same time. Your up and they’re down. I have seen friends take comments to heart and then get upset when the other person is just joking around. The tension can be cut with a knife at times.

My best advice is to say nothing and figure out first what the reality is vs. what your reading into. Sometimes it is just better to walk away from the situation. When you have a clear head things don’t look so bad. Just let it go and move on.

We all know when someone is trying to pick a fight or being passive aggressive. There is a major difference. Those times are when you need to confront the issue and say how your feeling at that moment without attacking the other person and make the situation worse.

No comments yet. Be the first.

Leave a reply