Dating can bring out a lot of self esteem issues. We tend to start over thinking thing and creating a lot of drama. What I mean is we second guess ourselves all the time and begin to internalize things.

When it comes to love your really need to be open and not feed into insecurities that can take over. You need an open heart. Find what works best for you whether that is internet dating, blind dates or just going out to places that singles hang out.

We can’t hide and feel sorry for ourselves we need to trust in the universe and be patience. If your heart has been broken it is time to mend. Take chances is better than doing nothing.

When you meet the right person your fears should start to decrease. But, if you keep dating the wrong people that is when your fears increase. Break the cycle and make changes to the type of people you date.

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For all the people out there that get depressed on V Day because they don’t have a date please don’t.

Instead of being depressed I want to suggest taking some time and writing down your vision of this day with someone you love. When we create a vision in our mind of what this day could be like it is very powerful.

Positive thoughts are way more powerful and bring us hope and give us a sense of what our future can look like. Open your heart and be really for true love.

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There are times when internet dating can be very confusing. You begin to second guess who your looking for by the responses you get. What I mean is what if your 45 and only much older men or women write you.

Try not to take this to heart. Stick to you guns and wait until someone who you find interesting comes along. The problem is sometimes men or women want to date only much younger people.

What I suggest is start writing people that your interested in. Don’t always wait to be written to. In this day and age women should not have any problem writing men. It’s not like the stone age where a men has to make the first move. Your paying for a service so you should get as much out of the site as possible.

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I received an email from a guy on match yesterday. PROOF READ YOUR PROFILE! Not only did he have spelling errors in his headlines but also throughout his profile. He said he was “an iltelgent engennior”. I don’t know about you but that is a huge issue for me. Also, I hate when profiles are all written in CAPS. Most of us know that when you use CAPS it means YELLING!

We all make spelling errors but if you can’t spell your occupation you should really work on this. I had dyslexia as a child and try and be very careful with my spelling and grammar.

The bottom line is you are limiting the number of responses by not proof reading your profile. I can offer assistance writing profiles. Check out my coaching and consulting services if you want some help.

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Communication plays a huge role in a relationship. Are you afraid to bring up something that your partner hates to talk about? How you ever felt if you speak up about something that it will end your relationship?

I believe that in order for a relationship to last you need to have open communication. You know that if you hold back and don’t voice what is bugging you it will come out in many different ways. I remember when I was younger I wanted to breakup with my boyfriend but was too afraid to say anything. I started to be a total bitch and he broke up with me. I remember so clearly that every time I would be upset about something big and talked to my boyfriend that the relationship always ended. If bringing up an issues breaks up your relationship it was going to end sooner or later.

Now, I speak my mind regardless of the outcome. What I have learned is I need to be with a man who can communicate and be open. The only thing to fear is fear it’s self. I can offer help! http://coachmarcie.com/relationship-coaching.htm

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I have said before that a first date is a meet and greet. I was talking to some of my men friends yesterday about what do you say at the end of the date. Should a guy say ” I give you a call soon” if they are not interested?

My suggestion was if your not interested say it was nice meeting you. If someone says I’ll give you a call you believe they will. Women want to know if the guy is interested. People will lie so not to feel uncomfortable at the end of a date. I’ve heard it and I’m sure you have to. Men will even go as far to ask if you’d like to have dinner sometime.

I’m not suggesting to hurt anyone’s feelings because that is just not nice. Just leave it alone without lying. Women will have more respect for you if you don’t lie. We’re big girls so we can take it.

This holds true for the women at the end of the date. Don’t mislead them!

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Many people have pleasant experiences online. There is a comfort trying to find a partner online vs. going out to meet them. I know several people who have met and married people from online dating services. It really is a matter of weeding through profile and finding someone who would be a true match.

Most of what I have written has been on what to watch out for online. And I don’t want to come across as if it’s all bad. But, it is what it is! Of course I hear more bad than good but each person will decieded what is best for them.

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Is it misleading to post an old photo of yourself online? There is only one answer and it is YES.

If you are going to take the time to write a profile then also get a recent photo too. People are misrepresenting themselves having old photos online. What are you going to say when you meet face to face? In this day and age you can use your cell phone to take a picture.

You should feel confident in how you look! Whether you are now 10 pound overweight or balding it all about how you look today.

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I got an email telling me I was the women of this man’s dreams. He was new to the site and told me in detail how he has been waiting for me. Oh, wouldn’t it be grand if this was the truth. WHAT DO YOU THINK I’M STUPID!!

I’d bet 100 dollars that this email went out to several women. You can be totally into a photo and profile and want to get to know that person. But, to make a blanket statement like that is nuts. So I wrote back to see what would happen.

Now, first off he is a very good looking guy. He told me I’m the only person that he needs now that he found me. That we are meant to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. Do I dare even tell you that he lives about 15 hours from me too! I’m not the person to play these games with because I’ve heard it all at this point.

Coming on so strong like that is not a turn on. But, the sad part is I know there are women out there who would believe everything this man was saying just hoping for it to be the truth.

The one thing about is I’ll tell you like it is and not what you want to hear. So if you want to chat about internet dating write me!

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