Do women have too many expectations when they first meet a man? The answer is YES we do! I myself have been guilty of this behavior. It’s as if we want this guy to fill in all the missing pieces in our life. We crave love and sometimes even have ourselves convinced that this guy is for us. Ask yourself why am I getting so carried away?

For some it is just that they are so tired of being alone , want to be taken out or need some attention. The pressure we put on ourselves is too much let alone the guy. And what if things don’t work out? You feel even more lost and depressed. Not all women are this way but there are alot of us that do.

I know when I’m getting carried away and need to slow myself down. There is nothing wrong with being alone and happy without having a man or the wrong man in your life. It is so much better than dating someone that gets on your nerve or never lives up to your expectations. And there are some men who do the same thing as women.

You need to love and accept yourself before you can be truly happy in a relationships. So be true to yourself and listen to your inner voice for the answers.