I have said before that a first date is a meet and greet. I was talking to some of my men friends yesterday about what do you say at the end of the date. Should a guy say ” I give you a call soon” if they are not interested?

My suggestion was if your not interested say it was nice meeting you. If someone says I’ll give you a call you believe they will. Women want to know if the guy is interested. People will lie so not to feel uncomfortable at the end of a date. I’ve heard it and I’m sure you have to. Men will even go as far to ask if you’d like to have dinner sometime.

I’m not suggesting to hurt anyone’s feelings because that is just not nice. Just leave it alone without lying. Women will have more respect for you if you don’t lie. We’re big girls so we can take it.

This holds true for the women at the end of the date. Don’t mislead them!