There are times when internet dating can be very confusing. You begin to second guess who your looking for by the responses you get. What I mean is what if your 45 and only much older men or women write you.

Try not to take this to heart. Stick to you guns and wait until someone who you find interesting comes along. The problem is sometimes men or women want to date only much younger people.

What I suggest is start writing people that your interested in. Don’t always wait to be written to. In this day and age women should not have any problem writing men. It’s not like the stone age where a men has to make the first move. Your paying for a service so you should get as much out of the site as possible.