You know when you get an email from an internet dating site that someone’s interested in you? If your answer is yes did you ever wonder about the following?

Most of the people showing interest never even read your profile they just wink as on match. Don’t people realize each site makes you fill out a profile for a reason? I am much more interested in getting an email saying hi and I liked your profile. Most sites have a way for you to see who has viewed your profile.

I understand for most of us it is the picture that first interests us and if were not interested we just move to the next profile. Unless I find myself attracted to the photo I will not respond to the wink or showing of interest. And if they never read my profile I won’t even respond. I know this sounds tough but the type of men I’m interested would make the final decision to contact me by reading my profile.

Some of the sites let you send a “No Thank You”. I thought this was a good idea until someone wrote me back and told me off. No one likes rejection and maybe this is taking it too far.