I was doing a search yesterday on match.com and viewed a couple profiles. I came across one that interested me at first glance. About half way down in the guy’s profile it said ‘’ I WILL ONLY RESPOND IF YOU LEAVE A PHONE NUMBER.”

You have got to be kidding me! How many responses do you think he will get? I’m totally cool with the fact he will not respond back to anyone who winks at him because it takes so little effort.

He really does not have any insight to women due to his request for your phone number.
Some of us have enough trouble writing to a guy because we want him to make the first move. (This is not the case for me) All it makes me think is his EGO is HUGE!! Sure, he was cute but not enough for me to email my phone number. The whole point is to email back and forth a couple times to feel the person out.

As you can tell this really bugged me! Always remember to put yourself in the other person’s shoes when writing your profile. You want to appeal to the sexes and not turn them totally off.