Warning 2:
So you start emailing with someone from an online dating site and decide its fine to give out your personal email address. Hey why not take it to the next level and get to know someone better. I’d do it wouldn’t you? And, most of the time the email address contents their full name. Now you have a huge opportunity right? If you’re like me I would do a search on Google to see what information is out there for this person. The alarm should start going off in your head when nothing comes up. With all the social networking going on most people can be found on Facebook or LinkedIn. Then I would go to the White Pages because the town they live in is listed in their profile. Still nothing! Run fast and don’t look back. Just block their email address and say next. I know most of you would know to do some research but not everyone does. Below is an email from someone at match.com to a friend of mine who is kind enough to share with us. Stay tuned tomorrow because there is more. She agreed to keep emailing this guy and it just gets even more interesting.

Hello _____,

Where do i start from?Firstly I must commend your intelligence for being able to figure out the mail correctly. Really it is disturbing to come on this dating site to see how much people appreciate love, but yet We have to go the extra mile to get this great status. Forgive my manners, i am ______, an ______ of international repute. But really i am hanging the hat this year, i think after getting all the wealth in pursuit, i have come to realize that we are nothing without a partner, someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who i can say, she alone has the right to be womanly irritating to me,lol. A woman who would protect me like a lioness would do her cub,lol. and i can promise to protect her beyond all vices. A woman who tells me, honey, you can do it,. no matter what i want to do. I really worked hard the past 12 yrs to attain this height.

I have seen faces of women on this site, many of whom have been taken for granted, many of whom are not being reciprocated, but i have come with a good news and a bad news… the good news is i came here to pick my woman to make happy, my eight wonder, my best friend, my copilot, but the bad news is that i have only one woman to do this for. Let me be your last love to live your best life. I am as open as a book and I am really sure of what I want from a relationship. I believe faith must have led you to me and I hope we can take this really far. I see we share a lot in common. I want you to tell me more about you as well. I hope to read from you soon.

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Warning 1:
Date smart online and use common sense. When it comes to the heart we all want to believe what we read. You get an email saying I think you’re the one for me and they tell you how wonderful you are and so on. Their emails are so romantic and hopefully that you’re the one. And they want to keep emailing until you can meet. But, it will have to wait because they are traveling abroad right now so this love will have to wait. They would love to get your address to send you a note or card. Please don’t do it. We all know that some emails are scams. It’s the same as if you’re researching to buy a laptop and you find one for half price online. But, you can only pay by Western Union so hopefully you stopped right then. People will go to great lengths to take advantage of the lonely hearts. Please don’t give out your personal information like your date of birth or address. I hate to see this happen to anyone but it does every day. Don’t dwell on the fact you had some hope just move on. This is one simple step to protecting yourself.

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I was just reading an article about the right time to leave a marriage. There are so many ups and downs in any relationship and I know it’s tough. Fear and anxiety can eat away at you. Like I always say “honor your inner voice and allow it to give you” even when it is scary.

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Here is a great article written by Spence Morgan about is there an age barrier when to be a coach. What makes a good coach is their knowledge and sensitive which comes from within.

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Check out this great article in the New York Times about what you should talk about before you get engaged or married. Love can come at a cost if you don’t ask talk about the hard stuff or just jump right in. A must read for those over 35. As I always say listen to your inner voice and the questions will appear.

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I don’t know about you but life is such a struggle at times. Relationships are work no matter what. My hope is that if you’re single at the moment just hold tight and things will of course change. We all want to be loved and cared for regardless. Love is so important. Do you think too much or over analyze everything?

We need to follow our heart and the answers will be provided. This may not happen right away but we need to stop making decisions based on what our thoughts are. When you think too much your thoughts get all out of control. This is a critical time when we should just sit with a feeling and not act. Be still and listen to what your heart tells you.

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I could see if you’re about 16 years old or younger breaking up by sending a text. If you’re a grown adult this is funny but very sad. The younger generation is used to talking via text and video. But, if you are thirty or older texting that you want out of your relationship you need to do some soul searching. And, see a therapist or get a coach to help you learn how to confront someone on a sensitive matter. You need to have respect and empathy for the other person. Has this ever happened to you?

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Question:
I’ve been dating for about five years and I keep meeting the same men—nice guys but not at all my type. I’ve been using the Internet most recently and I usually respond if a guy writes me who sounds okay but not “just right,” thinking I may never find a guy who matches my criteria. So what am I doing wrong?
Listen to my answer on coachmarcie.com

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Is it all about the Law of Attraction or are we searching for that feeling that makes you loved and wanted. People think that if you are a Dating/ Relationship Coach or a Therapist that you can’t make the same mistakes when it comes to love as your clients.

I personally have not always made the right choices when it comes to love. But, I always stay in the moment and in reality which makes me responsible for my actions. My intuition is very strong and I go with my gut. I can feel the good and bad energy from people. That is one reason I became a coach and use my strength to help other know the inner working of their heart and soul. Once we have this figured out we can move on to putting a plan into action that works for you. If you take a leap of faith and know in your heart he/she is the one do your best to slow it down so you both can breathe and process what is really going on.

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Love should be easy right? Shouldn’t it just flow like the bumpy road of life? There is no way to know if today will be the day your heart gets broken.
Love comes and goes just like each day. This is why we need to live in the present and let go of exceptions. In my book Dating Ain’t For Sissies, Baby I talk about what single people need to do to start making changes to their approach when it comes to dating. Fear or feeling desperate clouds the reality of life. Each and everyone you come into contact with are in your life for a reason. It doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad. Take the time to learn the lesson of this person and why they play a role. There are so many people out there that just want to blame someone else instead of themselves for their baggage. This is just one example to think about. Stay positive and strong and nothing or no one can get in your way to inner peace and happiness.

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